Road of Life: a Road to Mastery

I realize that my life consists of finding new activities and then mastering them. For example, at 7 or 8 years old I picked up a guitar. I am certainly not a virtuoso now but I have dedicated countless hours to understanding and finding a level of mastery over the instrument. As a point of fact I have probably spent more time studying and mastering the guitar than I have anything else in life. Later in life came dating. I failed at it miserably. The very few times in my teens and twenties that I had a chance to go out with a girl, I said all the wrong things and usually repelled the female who was with me. But I studied it and read books (The idiots guide to relationships) etc.

Eventually I was in a steady relationship that lasted over a year. When that one fell apart I had a little more mastery and so on until I met my wife. We both work at marriage, it takes two. In my opinion, she and I both have gained a knowledge of marriage and relationships and that has kept us together. The guitar, relationships, blogging, writing reviews, getting paid to blog, relaxation, maintaining a healthy diet, … these are so many more human activities are the things I seek to master. Tomorrow there are sure to be new challenges. The meaning of life to me is to seek out new things and master them as best you can. If that sounds hard, you don’t understand me correctly. There is triumph through difficulty and there is nothing like the joy of mastery. Now that I have had this revelation about my life, I suppose it’s good I’m a blogger so I can leave behind some of these breakthroughs I make.

Author: Damien Riley

Damien Riley is a blogger, film reviewer, & podcaster who writes a column at RileyCentral.blog once a week. He has an MA in English from California State University, Fullerton. He married a high-desert princess (now his queen). They have 3 children.